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In Memory

A Space for Healing and Honoring Lives Lost to Suicide

In Loving Remembrance of My Brother and the Countless Lives Stolen by This Silent Struggle

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In Memory of Brandon J. Perry
October 28, 1973 – June 4, 2021

In June 2021, my world changed forever when I lost my brother, Brandon, to suicide. It’s a pain that doesn’t come with answers, only questions—“what ifs” and “whys” that linger in the quiet moments. While I may never fully understand, I hold on to the love he left behind. He was a husband, a father to a cherished daughter, and now, through her, his legacy lives on in his precious granddaughter.

Though miles separated us, my bond with Brandon was unshakable, and not a day goes by that I don’t think of him. This page is my way of honoring his memory and sending all my love to those beautiful girls in Texas. May he watch over you, guide you, and keep you safe always.

To anyone visiting this page: my heart is with you, too. Whether you’re here to remember someone you’ve lost or just looking for comfort, know you’re not alone. We may not have all the answers, but together, we can hold on to the love and light that remain. Let’s honor the memories, cherish the moments, and lean on each other.

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.

Memory Wall

Remembering Together: Your Loved Ones’ Legacy

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Share a Photo to Honor Loved Ones Lost to Suicide
If you've lost someone to suicide and would like to honor them, please feel free to share their photo. Name, DOB, DOD at your discretion. I’ll include these beautiful souls on a page dedicated to remembrance. This space is for honoring and remembering those affected by suicide, allowing their memory to live on in the hearts of others.

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Finding Support When You Need It Most

Finding help during difficult times can make all the difference. Below is a selection of national and global resources offering support, understanding, and crisis intervention. Whether you or someone you know needs urgent assistance, emotional support, or ongoing care, these resources offer a starting point. Additionally, there are ways to connect with local help—right in your community.

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Finding Local Help in Your Community

  1. Hospitals & Health Clinics

    • Many hospitals and clinics have mental health and crisis intervention services, often with on-call professionals ready to assist in emergencies.

  2. Mental Health and Counseling Centers

    • Local mental health organizations often provide therapy, counseling, and community support. Contacting state or provincial health departments can direct you to reputable organizations.

  3. Faith-Based and Community Organizations

    • Many churches, mosques, synagogues, and community centers offer grief counseling, support groups, and pastoral care for mental health needs.

  4. Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs)

    • For those employed, EAPs often provide free, confidential mental health support, including counseling sessions and referrals.

  5. Public Libraries

    • Libraries often provide free access to mental health resources, including referral guides for local support groups, counselors, and crisis lines.

  6. University & School Counseling Services

    • Schools, colleges, and universities often offer free counseling for students, staff, and sometimes even the public, particularly for grief or crisis support..

National and Global Resources

  1. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.)

    • Dial 988 for immediate support, available 24/7.

    • Offers crisis intervention and connects callers to mental health resources.

  2. Crisis Text Line

    • Text HOME to 741741 for free, confidential support via text.

    • Available in the U.S., U.K., and Canada.

  3. The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth)

    • Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678 for support specialized for LGBTQ youth.

    • Provides mental health and crisis intervention services.

  4. Befrienders Worldwide

    • Offers emotional support globally via email, phone, and in-person resources.

    • Find help at www.befrienders.org.

  5. Veterans Crisis Line (U.S. Veterans)

    • Call 988, then press 1 or text 838255 for veteran-focused mental health support.

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